Rise Women Rise: Princess

Guest Story by Princess O’Nika Auguste

I have always suffered from low self esteem and lack of confidence, which makes this hard to write. I am Princess O’Nika Auguste and I was born St. Lucia a small island in the Caribbean. Like I stated, I have always suffered from low self esteem, I always wanted to be lighter skin and have straight hair . You see my grandfather was mixed white and black and fortunately for my mother she came with a light complexion and “good hair” I always wanted to have the light skin and good hair , my family primarily focus on hair texture but skin tone was subtly introduced even though they did not know it, My family wanted me to marry a white man because not only my children would have “good hair” but a lighter skin complexion. My younger brother who was lighter skin than me and had better hair seemed to be their favorite. I don’t think it was intentional on my family’s part but it seemed that way and that’s now I perceived it and I resented my family.

I am now attending an HBCU in the US and I think the bias towards skin tone is worse than what i had experience so far, some of my professors were known for their bias towards lighter skin students, I didn’t expect it to happen at a HBCU but it does happen. At school my low self esteem got even lower. I was depressed because compared to some of lighter skin peers I was not considered beautiful and sunk deeper and deeper in depression

I finally got my confidence back when I took a history class and a philosophy class. In those classes I learned about the great civilizations of Egypt and Cush and their dark beautiful Nubian princesses like Nefertiti and I realize that I am beautiful because of my dark complexion and I can be a Nefertiti in my own world. I realize I don’t need to be light skin or have good hair to validate I am beautiful but I am a Princess because of my dark skin.

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One Response to Rise Women Rise: Princess

  1. linda says:

    What is good hair? You are enslaved in your mind and will never truly be validated because you believe what you have is bad you don’t love it you’ve accepted it you’ve accepted your bad hair and dark skin when really your kinky hair is beautiful and your brown skin is also! You haven’t embraced it you’ve simply accepted it.

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